Tag: life

  • The Days Nobody Talks About

    There are days no one posts about.The ones where you wake up and just stare — at the ceiling, the wall, the clock — wondering how you’re supposed to keep doing this. No coffee quote or “you got this” pep talk makes it better. You’re just tired. Bone-deep tired. The kind of tired that sleep…

  • Life is Basically Pac-Man

    Sometimes I think life is just one big game of Pac-Man. You’re out here, minding your business, trying to eat those little glowing pellets (aka life’s daily challenges). Bills? Chomp. Deadlines? Chomp. That awkward small talk with your boss in the breakroom? Chomp. But just when you think you’ve got a rhythm going — BOOM.…

  • The Pressure Cooker of Life

    Some days it feels like the world is sitting on your chest. Bills pile up, the phone won’t stop buzzing, work drains the last ounce of energy you thought you had, and your brain won’t shut off long enough to catch a breath. Pressure. Stress. Expectations. Life can feel like a never-ending to-do list, and…

  • Life has this hilarious way of working, doesn’t it?

    You finally save up a little money → your car decides it wants new brakes, new tires, and probably a new soul. You finally get caught up on laundry → it rains for three days straight and suddenly you have no dry socks. You finally eat healthy for a week → your coworker shows up…

  • Do It Scared

    If you’re waiting for the perfect moment, you’ll be waiting forever. The truth is, no one wakes up feeling ready to change their life. That voice in your head will always find a reason to wait—“I need more time.”“I need to figure everything out first.”“I’ll start when I feel stronger.” But growth rarely feels comfortable.…

  • She Didn’t Look Like An Addict

    She wasn’t the type you’d expect. She had a kind smile, worked double shifts, and always asked people how they were doing—really doing. People said she was “so strong,” “so independent,” “so put together.” They didn’t see her car parked in the same dark lot every night, shaking hands tracing the edges of a bottle…

  • Resiliency and Chaos

    I once tried to be the “put together” person. You know the type—smooth hair, matching socks, cucumber water kind of vibe. But somewhere between my third coffee, chasing a rogue sock-stealing dog, and accidentally replying “love you” to my boss… I realized I’m more “chaotic resilience” than calm perfection. And honestly? I like her better.She…

  • Reminder: Life isn’t always a straight path… sometimes it’s a chaotic GPS reroute with questionable directions.

    You’ll hit traffic (stress), construction (healing), detours (growth), and maybe a few potholes (mistakes)…But you’ll also see sunsets you didn’t plan for and meet people you never expected. So breathe. Reroute. Laugh at the wrong turns.And remember: even with the mess, you’re still moving forward.Even if it’s with one shoe on and a snack in…

  • Today’s Mood: Somewhere between “I’ve got this” and “Send help.”

    🧠 Mentally: Building an empire.💪 Physically: Tired but still showing up.🥴 Emotionally: One spilled coffee away from tears.🎧 Musically: Dancing in the kitchen like it’s 2007.✨ Spiritually: Manifesting peace… and snacks. If you’re out here doing your best with a half-charged phone, overthinking everything, and surviving on iced coffee and vibes—you’re not alone. 💁‍♀️ We’re…

  • 10 Signs You’re Technically Getting Your Life Together (But Also Kinda Not)

    1. You bought a planner.Have you written in it? No. But it’s cute and that’s half the battle. 2. You meal prepped… once.You’re still eating that same batch of soggy spaghetti five days later out of guilt. 3. You set an alarm for 6 AM.You woke up at 10 and were so proud you only…

  • 💭 Ever Feel Like You’re Just Freestyling Adulthood? Yeah… Me too.

    One day you’re eating cereal for dinner, the next you’re googling “how to fold a fitted sheet without summoning demons.”You balance trauma healing, work stress, and trying to remember where you put your phone (it’s in your hand). But hey—You’re still here.Still trying.Still showing up in your own perfectly messy way. And that’s something worth…

  • 🌤️ Sometimes the Miracle Is Just Getting Out of Bed 🌤️

    We don’t talk enough about the small victories. Like brushing your teeth when everything feels hollow.Or replying to that text when your brain said, “Not today.”Or even laughing—really laughing—after a long stretch of numb. We think healing is this grand, cinematic thing.But sometimes, it’s silent. Simple.Like opening the curtains. Drinking water. Letting the sun touch…

  • Serious(ish) Question…

    What’s something that felt like the end of the world back then…but now just makes you laugh? 🫠 Getting left on read?😩 That terrible haircut?💔 Crying over someone who couldn’t even spell “loyal”?😬 Wearing two polos with both collars popped? For me?One time, my “friend” did my makeup before school. I trusted her. Big mistake.Before…

  • ✨LIFE TIP: BE A CACTUS✨

    Grow even when it’s dry.Thrive even when it’s prickly.Stand tall with zero explanation.And most importantly…Don’t water yourself down for people who only want succulents 🌵😌 #GrowthMindset #StayWeird #CactusEnergy #HealingWithHumor

  • “8 Unhinged Habits That Are Actually Just Self-Care in Disguise”

    Because sometimes healing looks like chaos with a side of snacks. 1. Rearranging your entire room at 2 a.m.Not insomnia—feng shui therapy. 2. Buying plants you know will die in 3 weeks.It’s about hope. And denial. But mostly hope. 3. Talking to your dog like they’re your therapist.And honestly? They give better advice than most…

  • 10 Signs You’re Probably Healing… but Also Kinda Losing It

    Healing isn’t always soft music and journaling. Sometimes it’s crying in the shower and then laughing at memes 2 minutes later. If you relate to any of these, congrats—you’re probably healing… chaotically. 1. You’re setting boundaries… but in a tone that sounds like you’re quitting a job.“Thanks for the opportunity, but I will no longer…

  • 12 Songs to Remind You There is Still Light

    Some days words fall short—but a song can speak right to the part of us that still hopes.Here’s a playlist of tracks that have helped me breathe a little easier, even on the heaviest days: 🎵 1. “Rise Up” – Andra DayA soulful promise to keep going, even when strength feels gone. 🎵 2. “Good…

  • 7 Reminders For Hard Days

    Some days, the weight of the world feels heavier.Some days, your own thoughts feel like too much to carry.For those days, tuck these reminders somewhere close: 1. You don’t have to fix it all today.Healing and change aren’t a race. Breathe. Small steps still count. 2. Your worth isn’t measured by productivity.Rest is not weakness.…

  • ✨ “Your Past Doesn’t Get to Write the Ending” ✨

    We all carry a story we’d rather forget.A chapter that feels too heavy to reread.Regret written into the margins. Shame scribbled across every page. But here’s the truth no one teaches us loud enough:Your past is part of your story, but it doesn’t get to write the final chapter. Yes—you made mistakes.Yes—you’ve hurt others, and…

  • Protecting Your Peace Without Apology

    There comes a point in life where your peace costs too much to keep trading it away. You stop explaining yourself to people who don’t want to understand.You stop shrinking to fit into spaces that suffocate you.You stop apologizing for needing quiet, needing boundaries, needing space. Protecting your peace isn’t rude. It’s responsible.You’ve fought too…

  • From Scar to Story

    Some wounds don’t bleed anymore, but they still ache. They whisper reminders of battles fought—some won, some survived. We call them scars. And for a long time, I was ashamed of mine. I used to cover them with silence, fake smiles, and distractions. I didn’t want anyone to see the parts of me that had…

  • Stories That Lift You: Books That Feel Like a Deep Breath

    There are days when the world feels a little too heavy. When you’re tired of the noise, the pressure, the expectations—and you just want to escape into something that feels safe, inspiring, or simply human. Books have always had that power. They hold space for us.They remind us we’re not alone.And sometimes, they help us…

  • You Deserve Good Things

    There’s a quiet moment in healing when you realize you’re no longer fighting to stay alive…You’re learning to live. And that’s where the real shift begins. You start craving different things—peace over chaos, honesty over comfort, stillness over noise. You stop chasing people who never truly saw you, and start becoming the person you needed…